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shadow boxer
The Finger Painter & Master Ranter
in Zocalo v2.0
no-one here is allowed to commit suicide without my express consent....
you talk to me first before you off yourself...
unlike my my on-line pal of 6 years Mary Chuhran who killed herself seven days ago... as I discovered five minutes ago...
suicide is a very finite and incredibly selfish and wasteful thing to do.
you talk to me first before you off yourself...
unlike my my on-line pal of 6 years Mary Chuhran who killed herself seven days ago... as I discovered five minutes ago...
suicide is a very finite and incredibly selfish and wasteful thing to do.
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Listener #2 signed up. my e-mail/ICQ are all over the net. Talk to someone before doing such an act.
...sorry Jack but Mary was the girl with your computer case to be sent to you. My guess is you'll have to be patient whilst her people sort out her things. She also had 1300 bucks worth of my stuff too...
shit happens... I'd trade it all in on an e-mail from her...
[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by shadow boxer [/i]
[B]suicide is a very finite and incredibly selfish and wasteful thing to do. [/B][/QUOTE]
Couldn't agree more.
STFU Lord Refa. Keep your immature statements out of a serious thread like this.
[B]...sorry Jack but Mary was the girl with your computer case to be sent to you. [/B][/QUOTE]
Who am I to complain?
Sorry to hear the news...
:(
My condolences, 'boxer. I have an online buddy of my own who's become extremely dear to me during the last 7 months. She too has quite a history of pain, and I honestly don't know how down I'd go if I'd have to discover that she'd killed herself. I don't [i]believe[/i] she'd do something like that but sometimes... I just get this feeling off of her... hard to explain.
Any word on if the funeral's already been taken care of? It would probably mean worlds for her family and friends if you showed up.
[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by shadow boxer [/i]
[B]no-one here is allowed to commit suicide without my express consent....
you talk to me first before you off yourself...
unlike my my on-line pal of 6 years Mary Chuhran who killed herself seven days ago... as I discovered five minutes ago...
suicide is a very finite and incredibly selfish and wasteful thing to do. [/B][/QUOTE]
I'm very sorry to hear that, you have my sincerest condolences.
I've personally been quite a few times at a point where i wanted to just quit, end the suffering so to say, but what had always kept me from doing it was the thought what grief that would give my parents, and my friends.
[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by shadow boxer [/i]
[B]suicide is a very finite and incredibly selfish and wasteful thing to do. [/B][/QUOTE]
Sorry man.
It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Death is a natural part of life. However the timness of it is a factor. A person who lost someone who is old or a slower terminal desise will be more prepared to handle the passing than say someone who died in a car wreak. Suicide is like the latter, it often comes unprepared. Who knows how much energy and effort i invested in a small handful of people I know just to keep them alive. I once herd someoen who lost thier brother to suicide. When asked how he died, she said "He died from depression."
That brings a new perspective to the whole thing.
Also, when someone commits suicide the pain left on us is far bigger than anyother death. Because we can't but help to think we have failed, that we did something wrong. That is was our fault.....
[b]ZAP!!![/b]
- PJH
[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Lord Refa [/i]
[B]Two words. "Go" and "Ahead". [/B][/QUOTE]
Dont push Biggles Buttons.
I know what happens to people who do that.
[B]Two words. "Go" and "Ahead". [/B][/QUOTE]
One word... IDIOT!
SB, im very sorry to hear that. it seems that all of us here have had to say this all too often recently, but if u want to talk then we are all here for u (except refa who can go **** himself)
Well, not exactly on topic but close:
88 years old grandfather had some kind of stroke few hours ago. Right side seemed to be paralyzed. :(
Frankly Refa's death will either end his suffering, or prevent suffering of those around him. And I think it would be better if Refa ended his own life, then to live to commit actions which force others to sully their hands with his blood.
And as far and as bad as Refa tries to be, Ive met much worse, socipaths who had just as sick tastes as Refa, but no self destructive influence, they had a desire to continue to exist and satiate their sick desires. And the control they had was amazing, and their ability to blend, to hide, and as I discovered to excape is formidable.
That being said, SB, your right, in the overwhelming majority of cases suicide is such a horrible waste.
Anyway I dont see what was so bad about what he said.
[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by shadow boxer [/i]
[B]suicide is a very finite and incredibly selfish and wasteful thing to do. [/B][/QUOTE]
I know I'm new here and I didn't see this thread before but just wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss SB and to E. T. - Hope your Grandfather picks up. *hugs*
After reading the other stuff it hit me with feelings that I have to reply to. Firstly I don't know either what Refa said was sooo terrible, certainly not to wish death upon:
[B]QUOTE]Frankly Refa's death will either end his suffering, or prevent suffering of those around him. And I think it would be better if Refa ended his own life, then to live to commit actions which force others to sully their hands with his blood.
[/B][/QUOTE]
Suicide is selfish but when you hit rock bottom this is all you can see and you don't see or feel others around you anymore. I never got this low but I have had depression yrs ago.
SB: Im sorry man.
The band has some funny grit to them, granted, but I've lived in the same area as the band once, and as far as I can tell the song's based on true events. [i]The Land Of A Thousand Lakes[/i] indeed... :(
[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by MartianDust [/i]
[B]I know I'm new here and I didn't see this thread before but just wanted to say I'm sorry for your loss SB and to E. T. - Hope your Grandfather picks up. *hugs*
After reading the other stuff it hit me with feelings that I have to reply to. Firstly I don't know either what Refa said was sooo terrible, certainly not to wish death upon:
[/B][/QUOTE]
Its not what Refa has said here in this thread. Your new so you have mised alot of the wonderfull comments Refa has made. Refa claims to have tendancies towards pedophilia and homicidal behavior, plus other very, very nasty habbits an inclinations.
Its a toss up between weather he's just making stuff up to get our collective goats or he's serious about murdering and raping and whatever. We typically consider it to be crackpot humor, and ignore it.
However occasionaly one must send a message that we are aware of the fact that Refa might not be joking, and that there are such distrubing people present in this world, and we must be prepared to deal with them as necessary.
[B]Biggles: Try me. [/B][/QUOTE]
Well OK, apart from you. :)
that's the perfect song for when someone close to you dies. :(
[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Tyvar [/i]
[B]Its not what Refa has said here in this thread. Your new so you have mised alot of the wonderfull comments Refa has made. Refa claims to have tendancies towards pedophilia and homicidal behavior, plus other very, very nasty habbits an inclinations.
Its a toss up between weather he's just making stuff up to get our collective goats or he's serious about murdering and raping and whatever. We typically consider it to be crackpot humor, and ignore it.[/B][/QUOTE]
I thought that too that alot of it maybe made up to shock us, but as you are right in saying I am new and I don't know even 1/4 of the stuff he said and like you whether its true or not.
Hope I didn't stick my oar in as I know its not really my business. Just I felt wishing death on someone who is supposedly feeling suicidal well that shocked me abit only cos I don't know about Refa.
See I should've stayed quiet lol. ;)
I don't post alot here, life has been hitting me with one thing after another, from what I have seen though it seems to me that Refa just likes to call attention to himself, its behavior i've seen in a few people in my time. they say things people are going to find offensive, and they feed on the anger or disgust expressed by others in order to feel like they are special or uniqe, to them it doesn't matter that its in a bad way just as long as they stand out. Either that or they simply don't get that what you say can really affect how people feel, and they have no concept of prudence or tact.