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Well, I met this girl. I liked her from the start, and she actually seemed interested. She dumped her old boyfriend and we went out a couple of times. BTW, we kissed after the first one. Everything seemed alright and on track when christmas came. Since shes actually from another part of the country (Its not that far since this is Sweden) she went home to her parents and when she came back she was together with her old boyfriend again. After this we have flirted a lot, but never gotten anywhere.
This is my life in a nutshell, it seems I will never be happy (lovelife-ize) even tho a friend of mine, in which she confided, tells me that she is really more interested in me than her ex ex.
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Talk is silver, but violence is gold.
This is my life in a nutshell, it seems I will never be happy (lovelife-ize) even tho a friend of mine, in which she confided, tells me that she is really more interested in me than her ex ex.
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Talk is silver, but violence is gold.
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No plan survives first contact with reality.
No ?
Then stop being a doormat.
Trust me, I know what doormats are, I've been one.
My guess is her Ex is local, convienient and probably heart broken, so she feels both guilt and feels sorry for him, hence she has him for a 'boyfriend of convienience'. Much easier to maintain an old crappy relationship than to get into a new one, especially if a potential new one is distant and you're not sure that the new one is totally into you.
If you want the whole nine yard with her, tell her and yeah... ask her what she wants as well.
My best to you man.... go get ya wummun. [img]http://216.15.145.59/mainforums/smile.gif[/img]
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i once confided in a girl and we too were once real chummy, and flirty. all seem to be on track. i really liked this one and from the recon done by a friend so did she.
apparently.
lemme give some background on the local. it was a typical american high school. about 1500 went to it and was over crowded by 300. so come end of periods when classes change, there was a very loud murmer in the hallways. one would have to shout to hold a conversation.
so this gal and i are going on as we had done for months now. real cool gal, i think her name was mary-ann something. anywho so i get up the nerve, which as guys is differently one of those things we hate to do.
i personally would gladly charge into a hopeless battle then to do it. but since i have bad eyesight, knees and ankles, and a whole bunch of minor things that keep me out of the military, i have to fight these battles.
so i get the nerve up and ready. I start off on some mundane topic and were doing our thing i make her laugh she touches my arm ever so gently and so i go for it and ask her out.
well asking her i didnt really do i sort ah blurted it out at hyperspeed. it went something like this.
"so mary-ann i was wondering if you werent doing anything saterday night if you would want to go to the movies"
she blinked at me all confused like.
"with me-"
she then proceded to scream, not yell, scream the words "oh my god NO."
Quiet.
Dead quiet.
I swear you could hear a pin drop. i actually didnt see any eyes but i sure as hell felt them. she then tried to whisper, but when there is no sound a whisper is like talking into a bullhorn. she said something like i like you as a friend, ONLY as a friend. she made sure to stress the only. really stress it here.
The best part was that it was the begining of third period, out of ten. and she was in that class with me. sat next to me.
So THAT sucked. right? well there is slightly more to this story.
My best friend aaron at the time, who was always the lucky one with the ladies, ended up going out with this girl.
now that alone should have ended our friendship right? well it sort of did for a while. i was not all to happy with him, because it was he who did the recon and found out the false info that she liked me.
They dated for about 10 weeks when aaron broke it off with her because he kept getting urinary infections.
Its seems that she was a mormon, and was very very stict about staying a virgin till she got married.
butt
she was extremely horny and really really really liked it in a different place if you catch my drift. like the song said
[i]"Do you come from a land down under?
[b]Where women glow and men plunder?[/b]
Can't you hear, can't you hear the thunder?
You better run, you better take cover."[/i]
she couldnt get enough of it, but eventually he had to stop because he was in pain in a place that should never ever cause pain. she was also slightly um INSANE. For instance one day after they started singing their song she had amased quite a number of pictures of him inside her locker, too many way too fast you know?
so she was crazy and aaron and i rekindled our friendship.
i mean his penis was on fire, i never thought that THAT wish would come true so i had to be his friend again, right?
god i wonder if any body will actually read this really werid and lengthy post of mine.
[edit just fixed some spelling issues]
[This message has been edited by Rogue Trader (edited 01-27-2003).]
though my sheer physical phobia with asking out girls could be because of this.
nah couldnt be.
RT: You saved yourself a lot of trouble. When it comes to LDS (Mormon) girls/guys/anything just don't ask, don't try, don't bother. I'm in Salt Lake City right now and I don't know what it is about them; I've got a lot of LDS friends and as long as everyone is 'live and let live' it's fine. However LDS and Non-LDS just doesn't mix in relationships. They are either freaks or prudes - period. Sometimes the kids are okay, but 9 out of 10 times they go back to "The Church" in the long run.
I have to ask: Does she wear a CTR ring? (For those not educated in LDS CULTure single Later Day Saints often wear a ring with the letters CTR on them standing for Choose The Right - Referring to their "One and only true religion."
(I should say that LDS folks living outside of Utah and Idaho (unless missionaries - god help you) are much more normal. Word to the wise don't EVER start a conversation with one of their missionaries.
[b]ask her what she wants.[/b][/quote]
No! Never ask that question! Never! Or Vorlons will come after you!
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lol about the interpretation of the 'Men at Work' song, and I always find it exceptionally mirthful that the Catholics and almost every other religion of note that values virginity, pushes people sideways into 'taking it up the date' as we say here .. [img]http://216.15.145.59/mainforums/smile.gif[/img]
I mean really, good Catholic girls even have a pet name for it.. 'bungi', the irony of it kills me.. [img]http://216.15.145.59/mainforums/biggrin.gif[/img]
"I'm virginal and pure, my sacred front door is sealed, ( but you can come in the back door anytime you like.)."
Religion, and religious people crack me up.... [img]http://216.15.145.59/mainforums/biggrin.gif[/img]
People concerned with faith.... well thats another story
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Getting back to actual thread....
'nothing ventured nothing gained', the worst thing she can do is restore your faith in the world sucking very badly. Thats better than being in 'Grey 14' between the floors of life, the limbo between 'does she like me, or would she prefer to use me as one giant slipper and kick me into next week ?'
It may pay to wait a bit, it may pay not to... you unfortunately are the best judge of that, maybe if I was in the same room with you two I could hazard a much better guess about her feelings, this is one place were language barriers dont matter so much, body language, tone of voice etc matter a whole lot more...
she is likely to betray how she really feels in ways that she has no control over, or atleast limited control, ie the subconcious things.
I'd try finding an excuse to be in close physical contact, if shes positively reluctant to move herself a few inches away from you on the couch to break physical contact.... you may have one the lottery. [img]http://216.15.145.59/mainforums/biggrin.gif[/img]
Perhaps the best bet is to get a galpal you know very well to 'tag along' on some sort of innocuosu social occasion and see what she reads from both of you. Perhaps even discreetly enquire on your behalf, 'sell' you to the girl in question perhaps.
anyways... good vibes to you...
and relax....
even if you're about to have a head on collision with your lovelife, its much better to relax and let it happen... people who tense up before a crash are the ones who get badly injured.
[img]http://216.15.145.59/mainforums/smile.gif[/img]
let go...
stop trying to catch the fish, swim with it instead... [img]http://216.15.145.59/mainforums/biggrin.gif[/img]
Wish me luck will ya?
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Talk is silver, but violence is gold.
The world Makes no Sense to me.
P.S. was she hot?
And her looks doesnt matter much. Shes just fun to be around.
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Talk is silver, but violence is gold.
or just petite with delicate features
[quote]Originally posted by Rogue Trader:
[b]or pointy ti- uh other things.[/b][/quote]
What do you mean [img]http://216.15.145.59/mainforums/biggrin.gif[/img]?
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[This message has been edited by Captain,Simmonds (edited 01-29-2003).]
I wonder how this post will end!
that, and she can twist her body into a pretzel !
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She has an elf like appearance, no pointy ears tho.
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Talk is silver, but violence is gold.
nice.
From what I've been told, dating someone who had to dump someone first inorder to date you is not a very good idea, as their fidality is an issue right off the bat.
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"God's in his heaven. All's right with the world."
some people cling to old and dead relationships out of nothing more than habit or a fear of being alone...
I've seen that many times before...
okay.. maybe not..
Ill go stand over ---------> here
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Talk is silver, but violence is gold.
Love is in the air.....
You can all die.
Thank you we will now return you to your schedualed programing.
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