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She wants to be a flight attendant.

HuntSmackerHuntSmacker Firstones Ambassador to Starcraftia
Well, my girl is applying for this job (training included). She fits the bill, able to speak two languages fluently and good manner, height, etc. I'm not sure I like the idea of my girl being a flight attendant just yet. For one, means we'll be out of touch so often after just recently starting a relationship. Hm, I don't know, I guess I'll feel kinda letdown that I'll earn so little money in comparison too (not to mention envious) - Being a male and all, I guess this feeling is inbred into our DNA. I don't want to become the male version of Cinderella, now, do I? I guess everyone can kind of understand that. I can't stop her taking such a job, and I won't, but I have told her my feelings about it and all "that" . I think in the future, once we are better settled in our lives, I can accept that she'll have this job, but right now I think it will affect the start of our relationship. Bleh, but I guess I'm acting like child...
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  • StingrayStingray Elite Ranger
    Look at it this way, you could have met a female pilot. :D
  • HuntSmackerHuntSmacker Firstones Ambassador to Starcraftia
    Maybe, but that would mean I would already be very old :P
  • FreejackFreejack Jake the Not-so-Wise
    Just remember, now you can get free tickets....

    Jake
  • Entil'ZhaEntil'Zha I see famous people
    My wife almost got a job as a Flight Attendant for JetBlue right after they went operational, It made sense since their home base is JFK and we lived in the city.

    There are some great perks to dating/marrying an FA.
  • Data CrystalData Crystal Pencil Artist
    Oh, and bear in mind that not everyone gets to join the mile high club so easily... ;) We have to pay for the tickets, darnit. x-)
  • ShadowDancerShadowDancer When I say, "Why aye, gadgie," in my heart I say, "Och aye, laddie." London, UK
    heh, and some of those uniforms are quite sexy in their own way ;)
  • BigglesBiggles <font color=#AAFFAA>The Man Without a Face</font>
    Especially on Singapore and Cathay Pacific.

    I like flying on Singapore and Cathay Pacific. :)
  • MungrelMungrel Earthforce Officer
    I'd love to have a chick that earns more money than me ( moochey moochey :D ) but yeh, its kinda built in to ya dna not to accept it at first.
    Seriously though, your not acting like a child, its more common than ya think. 'Change' scares most ppl.
  • The Cabl3 GuyThe Cabl3 Guy Elite Ranger
    Sounds like a sweet deal to me. You see her a few times a week, maybe less. The rest of the week your home free! If you like playing the field this is now your opportunity!
  • Vorlons in my HeadVorlons in my Head The Vorlons told me to.
    Someday you'll appreciate having a girlfriend you don't have to see everyday.
  • StingrayStingray Elite Ranger
    "Let me introduce you to my three wives: war, famine and pestilence." - Londo Molari. :csmile: (paraphrasing, I don't remember the exact words.)

    Well, it's a bit like being married to a sailor or soldier, only this time you stay at home, while your wife is at sea or on the battlefield.

    It will be tough sometimes, that's for sure.
  • BigglesBiggles <font color=#AAFFAA>The Man Without a Face</font>
    If you're that worried about her doing this, perhaps it's better she did it now and got it out of her system (should she decide not to make a life-long career out of it) rather than later on?
  • ShadowDancerShadowDancer When I say, "Why aye, gadgie," in my heart I say, "Och aye, laddie." London, UK
    Biggles makes a good point actually; if she can go off and do this now, then you wont be subject to her moaning at you later on in life about how she had to sacrifice her dreams/career etc for you. I know my folks have this argument often when they have a row (increasingly often these days too :(), as Mum had quite a successful career in PR before they decided to have kids, which of course she had to drop, and its tiring enough listening to it from my POV.
  • HuntSmackerHuntSmacker Firstones Ambassador to Starcraftia
    It's not her dream career though, that I know for sure. She's just doing it because of the tempting money.
  • ShadowDancerShadowDancer When I say, "Why aye, gadgie," in my heart I say, "Och aye, laddie." London, UK
    maybe so, all im suggesting is that with hindsight the grass is often greener on the other side (even tho ts probably not)
  • HuntSmackerHuntSmacker Firstones Ambassador to Starcraftia
    Very true, I'm aware of that fact. Still, can't shake those damn male genes :D
  • MessiahMessiah Failed Experiment
    Hehe, Id love to meet a female millionaire sometime so that Ill be financially independent, and can go on with my swordsmithing dreams.. ;)
  • SpiritOneSpiritOne Magneto ABQ NM
    every man needs himself a sugar momma.

    I will say this though, the average flight attendant has a shitty job. They are forced to deal with delirious travelers. Not the every day business travelers like me (they seem to like us a bit more), its the seldom travelers that are stupid and have no clue what they are doing. The ones who complain loudly about things the FA has no affect on whatsoever like the flight being late.

    Its worth mentioning though, flight benefits aren't what they seem. My dad has been an A&P mechanic for a long time now working for airlines. Flight benefits are not "free tickets" its a non-revenue ticket that is space available. Meaning if there is a seat you get it, if not, you wait till the next flight. Also, its usually seniority based, meaning if there are 4 seats and 5 non-revs and the other 4 non-revs have been with the company longer, they get the seats and you wait.

    For the most part, they work, you learn when to fly, and take off peak hours flights, but there are times when you get stuck somewhere you don't want to be.
  • StingrayStingray Elite Ranger
    Aviation isn't what it used to be. The airlines are all struggling around the globe.

    No free tickets here that I'm aware of, reduced fares, yes, zero charge, no.
  • Space GhostSpace Ghost Elite Ranger
    Well, just think of all the role playing you can do with her later on... the naughty flight attendant makes your trip "more comfortable." ;) (Then again, maybe that's just something [i][b]I[/b][/i] would do. :D)
  • HuntSmackerHuntSmacker Firstones Ambassador to Starcraftia
    That's something we often discuss regardless if she's a flight attendant or not :o :P :D
  • Falcon1Falcon1 Elite Ranger
    Please make sure she does not work for Easyjet ;) And if she happens to be on the Southampton-Dublin flight I expect a nice fluffy pillow and an extra bag of peanuts :p
  • BigglesBiggles <font color=#AAFFAA>The Man Without a Face</font>
    [QUOTE=SpiritOne;157952]I will say this though, the average flight attendant has a shitty job. They are forced to deal with delirious travelers. Not the every day business travelers like me (they seem to like us a bit more), its the seldom travelers that are stupid and have no clue what they are doing. The ones who complain loudly about things the FA has no affect on whatsoever like the flight being late.[/QUOTE]

    It's not just the flight attendants who have to put up with passengers like that. The rest of us do, too. I'm not that frequent a traveler, but I'm sensible enough to know that certain people only have control over certain things. Why it is that the intelligence level of many people drops when they fly is beyond me.

    The worst one I've seen was an Australian woman returning to Queensland from Auckland a few years ago. The queues at the check in counter for the flight were huge (those of you who have been through Auckland Airport will know that the check in area is really badly designed), and it was now less than 1 hour to departure. While everyone else was standing in line and putting up with it, this woman was screaming her head off about how she was going to miss her flight (not likely with half the flight's passengers surrounding her in the queue). Her husband was standing next to her cringing. Eventually, to shut her up, they put her through the premium check in area usually reserved for only the richest passengers. We got through check in about 15 minutes later, and when we got up to customs, what do we see? The same woman shopping on the public side of customs for duty free stuff. So much for being in a hurry. Of course, this didn't stop her making a fuss in the customs queue as well. This continued for pretty much every stage of the flight. The ironic ending is that when I walked through customs and exited Brisbane airport, I turned around to see her standing by the luggage carousel, still waiting for her luggage. All that complaining and she never got there any faster than those of us who just accepted it.
  • ShadowDancerShadowDancer When I say, "Why aye, gadgie," in my heart I say, "Och aye, laddie." London, UK
    Biggles: I had a woman like that on my flight last summer to Turkey. Eventually she just pissed me off to the point where I just leant over and said "just shut the f*ck up and let them do their job and we'll all get through check-in a lot quicker".....basically I just had a brief rant at her. She was so shocked that a total stranger would say this to her that she never uttered another sound. I found out later that she was arguing over why the airline wasn't serving peanuts on the flight :eek:

    The irony to the situation was that they weren't serving them on the flight because I'd requested that they didn't as I've got a severe nut allergy. If I'd know that before I started my verbal tirade at her, I might have gone on a bit longer! ;) As it was, I got a free beer at the resort that evening from a guy who had been behind me in the queue :D
  • HuntSmackerHuntSmacker Firstones Ambassador to Starcraftia
    Well to be true this relationship is difficult right now, although she is very commited to me, her parents and family try to get her hooked up with someone rich. :P
  • MungrelMungrel Earthforce Officer
    So thats why the focus is on the money side. What do the parents do?


    [QUOTE=Biggles;157911]Especially on Singapore and Cathay Pacific.[/QUOTE]

    Any stories to share?
  • SpiritOneSpiritOne Magneto ABQ NM
    [QUOTE=Biggles;157974]It's not just the flight attendants who have to put up with passengers like that. The rest of us do, too. I'm not that frequent a traveler, but I'm sensible enough to know that certain people only have control over certain things. [/QUOTE]

    To be completely honest, I have learned to tune out stupid passengers, or when I can't I usually make a joke to the flight attendant about their ridiculous behavior and that gets the point across. Unfortunately I am a frequent traveler. I average at least 4 flights a month. Some months like February my boss looses touch with reality and I do 10 :( It does have its perks though, even though Im traveling for work I get to keep my miles, I have platinum status on American which is oneworld sapphire status to some of you. So I get a lot of free upgrades to business and first class.

    I was standing in line for a flight that was delayed due to weather, and the woman in front of me was bitching up a storm about how they should prepare for that, and she had to get where she was going right now, and she was screaming at the gate agent about it. After she left I walked up to the gate agent, handed her my ticket and platinum card and asked her if I could just be booked on the later flight so I didn't have to be on the same plane as that woman. Even though I was out of earned upgrades the gate agent booked me in first for the flight. We had a good laugh about it too.

    Really anymore its not the pissy passengers that bother me, its the sick ones. I fly a LOT so plane travel doesn't bother me. I was sitting next to this guy once who pulled out the airsick bag on takeoff, landing and the light turbulence we encountered during the flight. He had to start borrowing bags from other passengers. I asked him if he ate bad shellfish or something and he said no, its the motion. I'm thinking to myself, what freaking motion???
  • BigglesBiggles <font color=#AAFFAA>The Man Without a Face</font>
    [QUOTE=ShadowDancer;157978]Biggles: I had a woman like that on my flight last summer to Turkey. Eventually she just pissed me off to the point where I just leant over and said "just shut the f*ck up and let them do their job and we'll all get through check-in a lot quicker".....basically I just had a brief rant at her.[/QUOTE]

    I probably would have done that had this woman not been a dozen glorious places behind me in line.

    [QUOTE=HuntSmacker;157986]Well to be true this relationship is difficult right now, although she is very commited to me, her parents and family try to get her hooked up with someone rich. :P[/QUOTE]

    Fight the family! Don't give in!

    [QUOTE=SpiritOne;157999]To be completely honest, I have learned to tune out stupid passengers[/quote]

    I haven't traveled enough to do that, but they don't bother me that much usually. I just find it shocking how badly some people will behave when flying, and how little a grasp of common sense they seem to have.

    [QUOTE=SpiritOne;157999]Really anymore its not the pissy passengers that bother me, its the sick ones. I fly a LOT so plane travel doesn't bother me. I was sitting next to this guy once who pulled out the airsick bag on takeoff, landing and the light turbulence we encountered during the flight. He had to start borrowing bags from other passengers. I asked him if he ate bad shellfish or something and he said no, its the motion. I'm thinking to myself, what freaking motion???[/QUOTE]

    I start to get a bit queasy by the end of an 11 hour flight, but fortunately I don't get airsick on passenger jets. I had one rather turbulent flight last year which went through [url=http://www.killbots.net/gallery/china2006/mvi_0593]two[/url] [url=http://www.killbots.net/gallery/china2006/img_0632]typhoons[/url] and landed during a [url=http://www.killbots.net/gallery/china2006/img_0641]huge storm at the airport[/url]. By the time we were coming in for a very bumpy landing, most of the people around me were hiding their faces with their hands or airsickness bags. I was sitting there staring out the window with a huge grin, having the time of my life.
  • The Cabl3 GuyThe Cabl3 Guy Elite Ranger
    Well I find it funny thats it mostly women that cause the most conflict in these flight situations. Its that kind of bitchiness that really turns off any flight attendant or for that matter the passengers. Amazing, that since all the flight cancellations and terrorist threats no one appreciates the privilege to fly.

    But remember they're male asshole passengers as well. I always ask the hottest flight attendant "Where can I sign up for the mile high club?" Nearly slapped once, nearly made out with another. Ya better hope Huntsmacker I am never on a plane with your girlfriend. :D

    @Spirit I thought you were a marine not airforce!
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